Explain why (cf nosiness), offer confidentiality
Fear of disappointment/disapproval, parent/authority figure, stigma, genital examination.
Closed questions – curiosity not judgement:
- Who was it with? How old is she/he (clarify!). Regular partner or casual (cf one off, one night stand, other judgemental terms).
- Did you use a condom? Did you use contraception (not the same thing)?
- Did you want to?
- Did you enjoy it? (!)
- Do you tend to have sex when you’ve been drinking alcohol